Trust the Process

Parenting and Discipleship Take Time

By Jonathan McNeese (Woodforest, Houston)

Growing up, we sang a song in children’s church that went something like this:

He’s still working on me to make me what I ought to be. It took Him just a week to make the moon and the stars, the sun and the earth and Jupiter and Mars. How loving and patient He must be, He’s still working on me.

At the time, I don’t think that I really grasped what a great truth that song was teaching, but, as I look back, I can see the rich value held in its words. Romans 8:29 says: “For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren.” We all know the great responsibility that we as parents have in the nurturing of the children to which God has entrusted us. That great responsibility is only made more difficult as our children grow, begin to make their own choices and make our job as parents near impossible. At times, we may wonder, “what did I get myself into?”

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Warning: Do not raise your children this way.

Still, the reality is that spiritual growth is not a parental task that can be completed on the microwave aisle or even the crock-pot aisle to simply “set and forget.” Rather, God expects parents to lead our children through the process of sanctification emphasizing the small victories along the way. Christlikeness is something that our children must understand takes time and will not be complete until we stand before God one day in heaven.

 

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Feb 20, 2015; Philadelphia, PA, USA; Fans with a sign showing support for the Philadelphia 76ers during a game against the Indiana Pacers at Wells Fargo Center. The Pacers defeated the 76ers 106-95. Mandatory Credit: Bill Streicher-USA TODAY Sports

Until that time, let us invest every ounce of influence we can muster into our children’s lives recognizing that we play an important role in God’s eternal plan for their lives. The Philadelphia 76ers made national news a few years back using the tagline “trust the process” concerning their unorthodox, slow-moving player development that was taking years to produce results. Their front office personnel remained adamant that they would eventually see the desired finished product if the fans gave them time to develop as they intended. Even though the 76ers have still not seen the success they desire, it is evident that they realize that sports like generational discipleship involves days, weeks, months and even years.

 

The next time your child makes a mistake that you feel like is completely inexcusable remember to speak the truth in love. God does not give up on us when we fail Him, and we should not treat our children any differently. Surround your family with prayer and love, trust the process of God working in their heart, and you will see him do amazing things that we could never imagine.

TWAC Ladies Retreat…Girls Time!

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Come evening or morning or both…we’re gonna have a great

GIRLS TIME!

October means summer is past, school has started, and it is time for a girls get together! This will be an encouraging time of fellowship, prayer, and Bible study

and it’s FREE…yes FREE!

You provide your own food and lodging (the hotel and restaurant lists are provided at texasfwb.org/twac). All you need to do is RSVP to mburks@eastex.net or LILLIAN55@consolidated.net by October 6, and come ready to be revived and encouraged.

Schedule

Laughter & Latte Friday, October 13

6:30PM

Latte Fellowship

7:00PM

Teaser Session for the Study

Prayer Time

Games and Snacks

Muffins & Meditation Saturday, October 14

9:30AM

Muffin Fellowship

10:00AM

The Girl’s Still Got It!

Missions Moment

Share Time

The Girl’s Still Got It: Take a Walk with Ruth

You know Ruth’s story. Now meet her in person. And prepare to be changed. Walk with Ruth as she travels from Moab to Bethlehem, certain of her calling, yet uncertain of her future. Hold Naomi’s hand and watch love put the pieces of her broken life back together. and hang out with Boaz, their kinsman-redeemer, who blesses both women and honors God, big time. With best-selling author Liz Curtis Higgs by your side, you’ll tarry in the corners of their ancient houses, listen to their conversations, and consider every word of every verse until you can say, “I ‘totally’ get the book of Ruth. And I see what God is trying to teach me through this rags-to-riches redemption story–he has a plan for my life.” Girl, does he ever. Think of it as time travel without gimmicks, gizmos, or a DeLorean; a novel approach to Bible study that leas from past to present, gleaning timeless truths that speak to he heart.

Teens Being the Hands and Feet of Jesus

A Mother Dispels the Myth of the Lazy, Selfish, and Arrogant Teenager

By Teressa Voltz (Woodforest Church, Houston)

Hurricane Harvey came barreling through the Houston and surrounding areas with its mighty force and then just stopped and decided to hang around….for several days! The amount of water dumped in that area was unbelievable. The amount of people that were affected by that water was unbelievable. My family was one of the fortunate and oh so blessed families that did not get any water in our home. Because of this good fortune, we felt God leading us to get out and help others that were affected by the water. So out we went. What I found was life-changing.Continue reading “Teens Being the Hands and Feet of Jesus”